Sunday, October 30, 2005
Everything is about Leadership
Qualities of Good Christian Leadership
A. Pursue God.
1. Pursue God not Recognition.
- This depends on your relationship with God. How much emphasis do you have on God, and how much are you willing to sacrifice for God. These are the determining factors.
- Spiritual bankruptcy will surface when leadership is dependent on talents and competency. Often times, we tend to want to attend certain churches because of it's management rather than about God.
- Christian leadership is attained by seeking God daily through prayer.
- Philippians 3:8 says "For it is we who are the circumcision, we who worship by the Spirit of God, who glory in Christ Jesus, and who put no confidence in the flesh".
- Those who seek God privately will be rewarded publicly and those who pursue God and not personal glorification will have an uncompromising success and will reach the end.
- If today, you feel that God has by-passed you for someone else, God says to you "Patience, my child." Indeed, all things are done according to His time and acted according to His plans.
2. Pursue God not Self-promotion
- This simply means to wait for God to promote us and reward us accordingly. Take for example, there are many philanthropist in the world today who wishes to remain anonymous for the works they do. This is not about avoiding unwanted media attention but it is about what true charity is all about. Donations ought to come from the heart. This is so, as when a donation comes from the heart, the donation will be blessed by you and in turn it will be blessed in manifold ways. This same principle applies here. Do what God commands us to do, and we will be rewarded by Him in His time. Do not however, treat doing God's work as a form of a publicity stunt for your own recognition and promotion.
3. Pursue God not Status and seeking Favouritism
- Jesus condemns the categorisation of his people.
- Servant-hood is the antidote to status and favouritism
- Read up on Matthew 20:20-23.
4. Pursue God not Personal Gain
- Success of the ministry is not wealth or numbers but it is changed lives. Indeed. A successful ministry is about how many lives have been changed such that God is of utmost importance in each and every one of their lives. A successful ministry will be one that can feed and satisfy a church that hungers for God. While numbers and changed lives seems to be the perfect combination yet numbers alone only justifies the amount of effort a church does to draw attention to it.
- Through such a pursue, God will bless his people in manifold ways.
B. Treasure God's Call
- Romans 1:1 "Paul, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle and set apart for the gospel of God - " Some people are called by God to serve in a ministry full-time while some in many other ways. When God calls you to serve him, one way or another, do not avoid him and neither should you be reluctant. God's call is unavoidable.
C. Be committed
- The foundation of commitment is dedication and the keys to dedication are having a heart for God and sacrifice.
- Romans 12:1-2 "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to GodÂthis is your spiritual act of worship. [2]Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will isÂhis good, pleasing and perfect will."
- Our body and our mind is a living sacrifice to God. Sometimes our body maybe praising God but our mind is drifting away from God take for example the sermon in church. Haven't we all been guilty of thinking of something else when the pastor is preaching rather than to give God our fullest attention?
D. Have Vision
- There is no leadership without vision. A leader without vision would only become a visionary leader and not one with vision. Faith is vision.
- Proverbs 29:18 says "Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; but blessed is he who keeps the law."
- Having vision includes having optimism and being able to seize every opportunity that knocks on your door. With such visions, we need to do something about it, otherwise, it becomes futile.
- However great a leader is, every leader needs a successor to pass on his knowledge and to ensure that the organisation or ministry can continue to grow in good faith. Similarly, a great leader cannot act as a solitary figure. A leader requirecouncilorsrs whom he can consult with and must most importantly heed the voices and cries of the people. Proverbs 11:14 says "For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure."
- Read up on Elisha and the Syrian i.e. 2 Kings 6:8-23
E. Keep our Focus
- Philippians 3:13-14 says "Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, [14] I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."
- We need to let go of our past and present and ignore all distractions that would result in us having to deviate from our main objective. With focus comes direction. With this sense of direction, then comes a sense of purpose in what you are doing.
F. Be Strong and Courageous
- Sometimes we ask God, why must this happen to me and not to someone else. We say to God "If I am a child of yours like him, why then am I treated differently from him; why am I suffering while he is enjoying himself..." God is a fair and just God. Everything that happens in our lives, every challenge, every obstacle, every difficulty we face are all part of God's plan to shape us and mould us into a stronger person. Rather than to lament on our plight albeit the human nature to do so, think of the possible reasons about why God allow sorrow, hurt, anger, pain, melancholia, disappointments... in your life... There is a purpose in everything that God allows to happen in your life.
- Joshua was constantly reminded by God to be strong. Just from Joshua 1:1-9 God reminded Joshua to be strong three times particularly in verses 6,7 and 9.
- Only when we are strong and courageous can our leadership be an effective one as this means that we can not only stand against all odds but also able to use these personal experiences as a form of personal testimonial to win souls for the Lord.
- Being strong and courageous is very much applicable in confronting sin. Read up on Exodus 32:1-35 and Numbers 25:1-8.
- To be strong and courageous, we need to be decisive and not be swayed by the crowd. A leader needs to have a firm stand on matters particularly matters that are already sanctioned by law or by an agreement within involved parties. Any sign of relent will then mark the downfall of you as a leader.
G. To stay Humble
- Humility is a daily struggle. However, because humility is a daily struggle, it therefore also shows how important humility is to our lives. Proverbs 22:4 says " Humility and the fear of the Lord bring wealth and honour and life." Similarly, Psalm 37:11 says "But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy great peace." and Matthew 5:5 " Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth."
- Humility is synonymous to patience. Hence when we say humility is a daily struggle, the underlying assumption is that our patience is likewise being tested.
- In what ways must we be humble?
1. Humble to Serve
- Philippians 2:4 says "Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." Indeed, when we speak about humility, we need to put aside our pride and humble ourselves regardless of your personal qualifications.
2. Humble to be Transparent
- Personal life stories are the ones that really bless other people. If you have purchased Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren, I would encourage you to read Day 37 on Sharing your Life message. Otherwise, it would have to wait for one of my subsequent blog entries.
- Accept our short-comings. No one is perfect. We therefore need to embrace our short-comings and learn how to adapt and overcome them.
3. Humble to overcome criticism and praises
- Who likes to be told that he/she is wrong? Who likes to always be scolded? When faced with criticism or worst unfair treatment in the form of wrongful accusation, rather than to allow your anger to take control of you, simmer down and ask God to bless you with his inner peace and allow yourself tsieveve through all your thoughts in the most logical fashion fathomable. Let God take charge!
- Haughtiness leads to arrogance which in turn leads to fractured relationships.
4. Humble to be forgiving.
- To forgive a person means that we need to let go of our pride and anger towards the person. It also means that we need to humble ourselves because the sole reason why we cannot forgive a person is because we cling too dearly to our pride and this pride is essentially a sign of our haughtiness towards the person. Hence, we need to ask for humility however difficult it may seem to be.
5. Humble to press on.
- Read the book of Psalm, chapter 8.
H. Have Integrity
- Psalm 1:1-3 says "Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. [2] But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. [3] He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers."
- Luke 8:15 says "But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop."
- 1 Peter 2:12 says "Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us." Have integrity even when you are tempted. Your persistence in obeying God's word will make you a great leader for God.
- The keys in keeping our integrity are our honesty and impartiality. 1 Peter 5:2-3 says "Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, serving as overseersÂnot because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; [3] not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock."
I. Be Kind and Loving
- Pursue God and then you can then love people. Read up on 1 Corinthians, chapter 13.
J. Will not be intimidated.
"Go up and down the streets of Jerusalem, look around and consider, search through her squares. If you can find but one person who deals honestly and seeks the truth, I will forgive this city." Jeremiah 5:1
God is searching for individuals i.e. a man to do his work. Are you willing to do so? Are you willing to be a leader for God?
posted at 12:57
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Saturday, October 29, 2005
I ate a chicken breast meat that was stuffed with rice and coated with a layer of egg and then fried in a pan. I ate my mum's Chicken Wanton well it ain't exactly a wanton but it's the french's answer to the chinese wanton. We ate at BigO at Wheelock place after our dental appointment. There is just something about mums. They never want to disappoint their child when they ask for something...well maybe not too expensive somethings.
My mum has been complaining of an acute pain at the back of her mouth since last week. On inspection by my sister who couldn't but stop poking fun at my mum's teeth and it's condition, my mum decided to visit her/our dentist.
Mine lasted no more than 10 minutes. The dental nurses there are really very sweet and diligent. One of them even sat down and talked to me. Of everything that we talked about, I think I only remembered her telling me that I looked like I was 15 or 16 years only and that I had a very good complexion as compared to her brothers who had already finished their NS.
My mum had to do a filling for a cracked tooth and she actually couldn't bite anything hard after that. She was accommodating when we ate lunch but she didn't eat much. I ate her share at the end of the day.
We went shopping together. Yup, mother-son bonding session. We went to Zara and saw Adrian Pang, much to the delight of my mother. No, my mum ain't an ardent fan of him, but she just couldn't contain her smile when she saw him. We went Espirit as there was a season sale. Bought some clothes from there.
The new food court at Wheelock place is a must-go place. The stalls are designed in a rather unique way and the food there are quite nice. Though small and slightly more expensive than a usual food court at a neighbourhood mall, this one however, is worth your money.
Went home exhausted from all this shopping particularly my back. I been having this problem recently. My spine would ache whenever I walk or stand for too long and sometimes, this pain is excruciating. Coupled with my severe case of sweaty palms could this be a sign that I should seek medical attention...
till later...
posted at 13:31
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Wednesday, October 19, 2005
I went out with Jon yesterday. We ate at a place called Terra. Apparently, Terra was also the name of the house that I was in when I was still in NJ. I wonder, if I wore my Terra House T-shirt to the restaurant, would I get a discount? Worth a thought. We chatted and talked about a particular someone. I uncovered some interesting things along the way too.
Couldn't get what I wanted at Bugis Junction. However, I saw some nice clothes along the streets of Bugis Market. Feel like buying some stuff especially a new pair of slippers as my sandals broke while I was climbing up a slope a few weeks ago. I think I bought the sandals from BATA. Indeed Buy And Throw Away [BATA]. Any idea which place sells affordable and nice looking slippers? I need suggestions before I plonk straight down to somewhere I don't even know to shop around in December. Suddenly I am drawn towards online shopping. Anyhow, I hope I can have some company when I go shop for my stuff.
I am clearing 3 out of my 9 days of leave this month as requested (nicely-put isn't it) by my sergeant. Tomorrow, I will be attached out to SCME with Leslie, Raymond and the others. I cannot wait. However, the thought of having to return to camp tomorrow night to pack my duffel bag for Wallaby 2005 for kit-bag inspection on Friday and to shift my bed, my metal cupboard and my wooden cupboard to the third floor just makes me feel like pulling the hair out of the person who initiated this move. At least, my bag is packed. But, it is heavy.
I weighed myself today and found that I have lost weight. This is disturbing news. I cannot lose anymore weight. I am already underweight. That's it! I need to do something about it. Plus my IPPT is next week and I have not done much for it. I hope to at least obtain a pass for my IPPT. I am somewhat confident though.
Well...till later I guess...
posted at 10:57
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Monday, October 17, 2005
I woke up this morning with a sharp and acute pain in my stomach. It felt like gastric pains to me but I could not put my finger to it. I woke up at 7.45am and slept some more after rubbing some medication. I finally woke up at 9.45am.
I have been having very weird dreams recently.
The first one was awesomely strange. I could vividly hear a hymn being played and sung in the background of what seemed like a church and I knew the people around me. They were people I brought to church or vice versa and we were having a great time. I could see the faces of jubilee and laughter. The smiles were indeed inviting.
The second one I think would be more on the weird side. I dreamt that I was still back in JC, preparing for my 'A' Levels and working through the night just like every other night. I saw my FM teacher, his distinct mannerism and I think I also heard his voice in some sense. I woke up in a dazed, wondering whether I really had my 'A's the next day. Talk about a very late post- 'A' Level trauma.
The week has indeed been a very busy one. There were indeed moments where I threw all my frustrations on others and took others for granted. I am one person whom when irritated when doing something urgent and important, would just snap at the next person who passes by. I lost it at one particular person. His words to me were 'if you are not going to talk it out, I find it hard to communicate with you.'
To Jim... my frustrations to you is simply the fact that I am just a dinner mate to fill up the empty void in which your usual commitments cannot. I am just a secondary consideration to help you pass time. There ain't genuine sincerity in you towards me. I am taking a step back, really I am.
Preparing for my unit's 5th Anniversary cum Cohesion Day was exhausting. It was mentally exhausting actually. Listening to 50 odd people telling me what they preferred, what time they wanted to end the event, what they hoped to do... I felt like a living sponge that had to soak up all these nonsense. My committee less Leslie was no better. Leslie was not around because he was attached out with engineers. Fortunate soul I must definitely say. Had to plan for the amount of food, the games to play, the type of cake to order, the beverage and the lodging. From Sentosa, I moved it to East Coast Park and finally Downtown East simply because one of my bosses had a friend who could get a good deal for us if we were to hold our activities there.
Ultimate Frisbee ain't a game to be looked down upon. It is a combination of agility, speed and technique. It also speaks of teamwork and camaraderie. Although there was one particular portion of time where the weather did appear menacing, somehow, I still persisted on with the game. It worked wonders.
The rain which everyone prayed would pour and dampen our spirits did not come until the end when I finally left Downtown East. I called Jim, but his battery was low apparently from playing games the whole day on his phone. Never mind. Didn't feel he was ever interested anyway.
Yet, things today are somewhat different. I will leave it to time to reveal all answers.
---till later---Am on leave till Wednesday then stay out till Friday because I will be attached out to where Leslie is. A great week isn't it?---
posted at 04:37
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Saturday, October 08, 2005
Message: ... when you are alone God gave you a cute friend...good morning
What am I to you?
A friend, more than a friend or am I something else.
I am your cute friend.
Thanks for your answer...my dear cute friend.
I am very tired. Not physically tired but just tired of the mundane and trite things I need to do for people without any signs of appreciation shown towards me for what I have done for them.
I need a quiet time...to sort some things out. If I appear a little aloof or distant these days...well... that's because I ain't really myself these days... just give me some time... It always must happen during this period of time...
till later...
posted at 04:15
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