I confess to thinking too much especially when it comes to relationships. Ironically speaking, my secondary three english teacher Mrs. Ang once wrote in my comprehension that I thought too much as a passing comment.
Thinking too much is essentially not a bad thing. However, when it leads to conflicts and quarrels, it becomes a bug that needs to be fixed. Thinking too much also shows your insecurity towards a person, an affection or even to a relationship per se. Thinking too much basically shows the lack of trust towards a person.
Idealistically, we should all ought to believe and accept what people say to you and just take them at face value. However, taking something at face value is not the antithesis of thinking too much. Neither is taking something at face value synonymous to naivete in thought. To really take something at face value would require us irrational human beings to accept what is being thrown at us without even a reasonable doubt. This is something which is quite a magnificent feat if one can accomplish it.
We are taught to question. We are made to ask, to think, to ponder and to doubt. It is our intrinsic nature. However, the extreme of such a nature would be to think too much.
'I am tired so I cannot meet you. I am really sorry.' [The 'I' meets his friend later in the day]
Thinking too much will lead to many uncalled for and unreasonable thoughts to hover above one's head. Thinking too much may even lead to fights, quarrels and even the end of a blossoming relationship.
To the person who thinks too much, he or she will not pause and think about the most logical and straight-forward thoughts. Rather, he or she would meander to many varied and non-sensical thoughts where he or she would then use as reasons for his stand in an imminent fight or quarrel.
NOT thinking too much will basically lead you to only one conclusion. The "I' had a long night yesterday and naturally the 'I' would feel tired. Simple. Ain't it?
People who think too much love to twist simplicity and has a weird fervour for complexity. Weird. Thinking too much and having depth in thought are two completely different scenarios. While the latter portrays the maturity of ones thought and mind, and would also show the many facades of a person's personality and character, the former only shows a person's childish behaviour which simply turns people off.
I think too much. Therefore it led to a very bad argument with someone today. I need to make amendments...so that I can turn a wrong from a right.
--------------------------- till later ----------------------------------
...storm clouds may gather,
...stars may collide,
...but i love you,
..until the end of time.
