Saturday, January 28, 2006

You like to be surrounded by four solid walls.
You are a shy, idealistic person who does not find it easy to have relationships, especially intimate ones.
You are diplomatic, objective, and live in the present.
You are not very reserved, impatient, self-confident and fond of action.
You are self-confident and like to bring attention to yourself.
http://handwriting.feedbucket.com/
Did a handwriting analysis today. Quite interesting though. True? False? Let's leave this open!
"Why are we embarrassed by silence?"
"What comfort do we find in all the noise?" [Tuesdays with Morrie, Mitch Albom]
When people meet for the first time often times, we find ourselves too stumped for words. The initial reluctance, hesitation and of course, shyness will indeed make conversation a little awkward at first. Often times, we rely on people who are more vocal, more out-going, more daring enough to make that first move however the consequences. Difficult but important.
In silence, do we think about where this conversation will head next or are we trying too hard to read the mind of the other party to sieve out whether he or she is thinking about something else other than the actual conversation. Sometimes, we try too hard.
This not only happens when we meet people for the first time.
In festivities and celebrations, do you believe in following aimlessly with the crowd or would you prefer to do what you really want to do or maybe even both. In all this merry-making that is happening, take some time and think about what all these moments of trill and joy really mean to you. Ask yourself it's significance and perhaps then, these moments would appear more meaningful to you.
This only happens when we are true to ourselves.
--till later--
posted at 07:07